Lots of people have asked me to re-post this exercise so
that it’s easy to find and print.
Use this technique when your feelings are becoming
overwhelming or when you feel the need to calm down. No-one needs to know that you’re using this method,
so it can be used in lots of different situations eg in the office or in
meetings or while waiting for an interview to start. This technique is designed to centre you and
bring you back to a neutral state of wellbeing by increasing the oxygen in the
blood stream which causes beneficial physiological effects:
Exercise 1Take 10 deep breaths in and out.
- One breath in and out counts as one.
- When you breath in, do it from your abdomen and not your chest – your stomach should expand as you breath in
- If you find your mind wandering and lose count, start again from 1
- Keep going back to 1 until you are able to reach 10 in one go
In clinical studies using this technique has significantly reduced
feelings of stress, agitation, erratic thought processes and anxiety.
If your thoughts are particularly chaotic and you’re feeling
more stressed than usual, try this adaptation:
Exercise 2
- Think of something that makes you feel really good – it could be your child’s smile, lying on a sundrenched beach in the Caribbean (that’s my particular favourite), walking through a meadow on a summer’s day ... whatever works for you.
- Hold that picture in your mind and make it as big as possible. Make the colours really intense and hear the noises you would hear if you were really there.
- If it’s a still picture, make it a movie
- If it’s black and white, make it colour
- If it’s silent add sound
- Make it as big, bright, bold, colourful and loud as you possibly can
- With that picture firmly in your mind, start your 10 breaths (in and out counting as one breath)
- Now, as you’re counting, hold your movie in your mind and if you find that your mind wanders away from it (you may find this happens if your thoughts are really chaotic), bring it back to your movie and start your count again FROM THE BEGINNING!
- Every time your mind wanders, bring it back and start counting again from 1.
The first time you do this, you may find it really difficult
to stay focussed on your positive picture.
But like everything, practice makes perfect. The more you do it and the more you bring
yourself back to your positive movie, the easier it will become.
So next time you’re feeling a little out of control or panicky,
try one of these exercises – no-one need even know that you’re doing it and you’ll
be pleasantly surprised at the results!
Have a wonderful weekend.
Jo
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